kacau daun jiwa.

seorang sahabat bertanya kpd nabi

" aku berbuat baik kpd saudaraku tetapi dia tlh menzalimiku. patutkah aku membalas buruk kpdnya? "

" jangan! " jwb baginda.

" tetaplah berbuat baik kpdnya. sesungguhnya pertolongan Allah ada di blkgmu. "

' forgive but never forget ' ?

:)

she.

can or cannot.

" dont look away. "

You can escape from liability,
but you cannot escape from regret.

You can escape from school,
but you cannot escape from knowledge.

You can escape from your enemies,
but you cannot escape from fear.

You can escape from jail,
but you cannot escape from guilt.

You can escape from commitment,
but you cannot escape from love.

You can escape from others,
but you cannot escape from yourself.

You can escape from life,
but you cannot escape from death.

tazkirah ramadhan.

Ramadhan adalah bulan umat Muhammad s.a.w. Bersabda Rasulullah s.a.w. bermaksud, "Apabila tiba bulan Ramadhan maka akan dibukakan pintu-pintu syurga dan ditutupkan pintu-pintu neraka lalu diikatkan semua syaitan. " Sabda baginda dalam hadis yang lain, "Jika umat manusia itu mengetahuk akan kelebihan yang ada di dalam bulan Ramadhan nescaya umatku akan menginginkan supaya dijadikan sepanjang tahun itu sebagai bulan Ramadhan."

(i) Setiap amalan kebajikan akan digandakan oleh Allah sebanyak 1000 kali ganda.

(ii) Setiap amalan sunat akan diberikan ganjaran pahala amalan fardu.

(iii) Ramadhan dibagikan kepada tiga bahagikan kepada tiga bahagian istimewa bagi mereka yang berpuasa iaitu bahagian pertamanya dipenuhi dengan rahmat Allah, bahagian kedua dipenuhi dengan keampunan dari Allah dan bahagian ketiga pembebaan dari siksa api neraka.

(iv) Dituntut supaya mengerjakan solat sunat tarawih, witir dan solat-solat sunat yang lain.

(v) Banyakkan berdoa, berzikir, selawat, membaca al Quran, bertaubat dan lain-lain ama lan sunat.

(vi) Banyakkan bersedekah kepada fakir miskin dan membantu mereka yang berada di dalam kesusahan dan yang ditimpa kemalangan.

(vii) Menggandakan amalan sunat terutamanya pada 10 hari terakhir Ramadhan bagi mengharapkan keberkatan dan kebesaran malam ‘Lailatul Qadar’ seperti beriktikaf di masjid dan sebagainya.

(viii) Menghidupkan malam-malam Ramadhan dengan mendirikan qiamullail terutama pada 10 hari yang terakhir.

reminder.

Watch your Thoughts, they become Words!
Watch your Words, they become Actions!
Watch your Actions, they become Habits!
Watch your Habits, they become Character!
Watch your character, It becomes your DESTINY!

jaga-jaga cik salmah

"Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful."

Type Of Girls

HARD DISK GIRLS:
she remembers everything,

FOREVER RAM GIRLS:
she forgets about you, the moment turn her off

WINDOW GIRLS:
everyone know that she can't do a thing right, but no one can live without her.

SCREENSAVER GIRLS:
She is good for nothing but at least she is fun.

INTERNET GIRLS:
Difficult to access.

SERVER GIRLS:
Always busy when you need her.

MULTIMEDIA GIRLS:
She makes horrible thing look beautiful.

CD-ROM GIRLS:
She is always faster and faster.

EMAIL GIRLS:
Every ten things she says, eight are nonsense .

VIRUS GIRLS:
Also known as "wife'' when you are not expecting her, she comes, installs herself and uses all your resources. If you try to uninstall her you will lose something, if don't try to install her you will lose everything...

insaf

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih gembira menyambut 1hb Januari daripada 1 Muharram.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih tahu apa itu 14hb Februari daripada 12 Rabiulawal.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih membesarkan hari Sabtu, Ahad daripada hari Jumaat.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih Khusyuk mendengar lagu daripada mendengar Azan.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka lepak, tidur, tengok TV daripada Sembahyang.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih tahu tentang artis pujaan kita daripada nama nabi-nabi kita.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka menyebut Hello! Hai! daripada Assalamualaikum.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka menyanyi daripada berwirid, bertahmid.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka memuji manusia daripada Tuhan (Allah) kita sendiri.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka membaca majalah hiburan daripada buku-buku agama.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka pergi konsert, karaoke daripada ceramah agama.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka mengumpat orang daripada mengingati kebaikan orang.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka mencarut apabila melatah daripada menyebut nama Allah.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka kemungkaran daripada berbuat kebaikkan.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih bangga dgn kejahilan daripada bersyukur dengan keimanan.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih suka bersekongkol dengan pemeritah yang melakukan kezaliman daripada pemerintah yang baik.

Kita sebenarnya… Lebih cintakan Duniawi daripada urusan Akhirat.


astaghfirullahalazim...

cool advices 4 gals.

"undying devotion..."

Allow your heart and mind to feel and experience these things for/with him:

1. To melt by just looking in his eyes, To let your heart dance to the sound of his laugh,
   
2. To hold his hand and never take for granted how it feels when he holds you with both,
3. To take the chance of being wounded because you will not give him up freely,
4. To have him consume your every dream, your every thought, your every waking moment,
5. To let him know just how incomplete you would be without him, and how wonderful he is by just being who he is,
6. To never let anything he accomplishes or achieves ever go unnoticed,
7. To tell him you love him even more than you did the day before,
8. To let your shoulder be his support when he has a bad day,
9. To learn that sometimes you have to sacrifice your happiness in return for his,
10. To never make him choose between his friends AND you,
11. To take his breath away at least once a day by doing something unexpected,
12. To always apologize when you're the one in the wrong,
13. To miss him just as much when he's not in the same room with you as you would if he were gone for a few months,
14. To always shower him with nice compliments,
15. To let him captivate you by his own views and opinions,

AND

To ALWAYS love him with all you have, with all you are and everything you become.

ladylike girly girls

"Women are meant to be loved, not understood"

Few True Things About Girls...

- We will never be too old for sleepovers.

- Gossip isn't a sin. It's an art.

- We have this thing called feelings. don't hurt them.

- We don't wake up looking pretty. It takes time and effort.

- Sometimes is just never quite enough.

- We need girls nights OFTEN.

- We hold grudges [sometimes] and we never forget the things you say to us that hurt.

- It doesn't matter who dumped who or why. Whenever we see an ex with another girl, it always bothers us. Not because we're not over you, but because we know we used to be that girl.

- Makeup can hide so many things, like puffy eyes from crying of a broken heart.

- Never ever ask a girl what she weighs; or simply anything about her weight being too much or too little. just don`t do it.

- Never ask a girl if shes being b**chy cause of PMS.. cause other things annoy us...duh!

- As much as we say we didn't like you that much...we did.

- Girls notice every little thing so be careful what you say and do.

- Our eyes are located in our heads. Not our chest or butt. So when you're not looking in our eyes, WE KN0W.

- We get a feeling in our instinct when things are wrong.

- We don't like it when you're with someone in a relationship and you're over there texting some other b**ch.

- Sometimes we trust you because we want to, even when we know you are lying, and it hurts.

-We hate liars and hypocrites so do us a favor and just don't be one.

- Top of it, we are the most patient creature in the world, you know...

i found diz on a web. i added some of it. hehe

just smile!

Everyone smiles in the same language.

If you see someone without a smile, give them yours.

ala cumey nye!!!

Life isn’t fair. It’s just fairer than death, that’s all.

A party Mom...

I went to a party,
And remembered what you said.
You told me not to drink, Mom,
so I had a sprite instead.

I felt proud of myself,
The way you said I would,
that I didn't drink and drive,
though some friends said I should.

I made a healthy choice,
And your advice to me was right.
The party finally ended,
and the kids drove out of sight.

I got into my car,
Sure to get home in one piece.
I never knew what was coming, Mom,
something I expected least.

Now I'm lying on the pavement,
And I hear the policeman say,
the kid that caused this wreck was drunk,
Mom, his voice seems far away.

My own blood's all around me,
As I try hard not to cry.
I can hear the paramedic say,
this girl is going to die.

I'm sure the guy had no idea,
While he was flying high.
Because he chose to drink and drive,
now I would have to die.

So why do people do it, Mom
Knowing that it ruins lives?
And now the pain is cutting me,
like a hundred stabbing knives.

Tell sister not to be afraid, Mom
Tell daddy to be brave.
And when I go to heaven,
put ' Mommy's Girl' on my grave.

Someone should have taught him,
That it's wrong to drink and drive.
Maybe if his parents had,
I'd still be alive.

My breath is getting shorter,
Mom I'm getting really scared
These are my final moments,
and I'm so unprepared.

I wish that you could hold me Mom,
As I lie here and die.
I wish that I could say, 'I love you, Mom!'
So I love you and good-bye.

against drunk drivers

i believe in angels. i called them friends

I've learned a lot from friendship.
When you are up in life, your friends get to know who you are.
But when you are down in life, you get to know who your friends are.
It's really hard to understand people who we called 'friend'.
But friend just it.They're unique, like everyone else.

A true friend...
-Accepts you as you are
-believes in you
-calls you only to say "hello"
-doesn't give up with you
-admires all sides of your personality
-forgives your mistakes
-helps you
-encourages you to try it again
-makes a difference in your life
-says nice things about you
-offers his/her support
-understands you
-tells you the truth
-never judges you
-explains things you don't understand
-walks by your side
-calms down your fears
-shouts if necessary, if you don't want to listen
-raises your spirit.

have you ever seen any kind of this friend?
don't expect people would be like this,
expect yourself to be one... and i'm trying

A Box Full Of Kisses

The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy."

The man was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found out the box was empty. He yelled at her, stating, "Don't you know, when you give someone a present, there is supposed to be something inside? The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and cried, "Oh, Daddy, it's not empty at all. I blew kisses into the box. They're all for you, Daddy."

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.

Only a short time later, an accident took the life of the child. It is also told that her father kept that gold box by his bed for many years and, whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.


In a very real sense, each one of us, as humans beings, have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses... from our children, family members, friends, and God. There is simply no other possession, anyone could hold, more precious than this.